Does a girl look sexier if she smokes?

As you know from the amount of gals I see holding a cigarette and dancing away showing off their sexy moves in clubs... I am just wondering if a gal would look sexier smoking.. or are they just following some trend or they just wanna look cool or it's just plain addiction? It makes me wonder.. I mean I probably dun understand it cos I dun smoke.. or rather a gal smoking is no different from a guy smoking.. But what does a guy really think about a gal smoking? Do you like or rather do you mind if your girlfriend or wife smokes? or you would prefer that they don't.. I know I shouldn't be feminist on this issue.. anyway, smoking is not good for either sexes.. I know I dun really know how it feels like smoking or having an addiction on ciggarettes... so, smokers or non-smokers out there.. mind to share your thoughts? Tell me what you think about this...

Romantic...

This journal was sent to me by wings.. Turtle Soup... simply romantic.. melts your heart even by reading and looking at the pics.. for the gals.. something for you to drool on.. as for the guys.. some pointers for you on the things that you can do.. some people especially guys.. the first thing they say is that the guy is freaking rich to pull something like that.. but then actually it's not a matter of doin exactly the same thing.. it's just the amount of effort he puts into doing it that is most important.. and eventually things will come out good.. regardless if it cost much or not... not sure if you get what I mean.. but then just the thought of finding someone who loves you that much is worth to be cherish more than anything else... hope they will be a happy couple for the rest of their lives.. although I dun know them.. but it's my blessings to them..

Vacancy..

So, another series of sucky movie.. ok la.. not that bad la.. but it's just not good la... went to watch Vacancy... ummm... dunno what to say bout this show... story line is just so so... *blek*... went to watch it with Uncle Des last nite after pork ribs and philippines dish dinner at Centre Point last nite.. somehow dunno why always ended up watching not too good movie with him.. jinx?? hahaha.. just joking.. but then probably cos we always never plan in advance to watch movie.. it's like always ad hoc and then go to the cinema to pick whatever that is available and with nice seatings.. probably one of the reason why it still has nice seatings even at the last minute..

The poster does looks quite nice anyway.. BUT... ...at first I thought it would be quite a nice movie since both actor and actress are pretty famous... but then ended up in disappointment.. how bout watching it and let me know what you think.. or those who have already watched it.. tell la.. is it just me or is the show really pretty bad..

Anyway, enuf said bout the movie.. how was my weekend? nothing much actually.. as usual working on Friday and Saturday nite.. somehow Sat nite at Cynna was like a mad house.. jam packed.. didn't really stop for a minute... it's like carrying so much stuff thru and fro and yet it's never enuf.. imagine just taking care of only one table and it's already like that.. can't imagine if it's a few tables.. worse of all.. didn't get much tips.. so many fat-ass (sorry.. dun mean to offend anyone but just due to being angry) there that dun seem to bother bout ppl... was like carrying so many things on both hands and they just keep shaking their whole body like nobody's business.. even bending down showing dunno what moves when it's super jam packed... not caring bout anyone around them.. and I have to say that gals are more inconsiderate compared to guys.. they just hardly seem to bother bout ppl around them or rather they are too engrossed in showing off their sexy moves then to really care bout anything else.. at least SOME guys would notice you coming and try to make way for you.. luckily nothing on my hand dropped or broke although being pushed around by these ppl.. but then there were a few broken glasses though.. even my earring also kena pulled from my ears... can you imagine.. still hate the fact that many ppl especially gals like to hold their ciggies and dance.. ouch! ouch! hate it! hate it!!

Relationship Point #1

I know I am not some kinda relationship expert or whatsoever.. But recently I've had alot of relationship talk with friends and all.. plus with my own experience... and from what I see happening around me.. I have to sum up that the most important thing in a relationship is that making your other half feels that he/she is important to you.. is really really important.. or rather it is to me.. I dun know if this is considered under the category of 'Sense of Security' but I guess both are pretty much linked..

If everything else is more important than you.. Money, friends, cars, computer, family (understandable but you're gonna be apart of it also someday..), career... and you just feel like you're the last in the list.. would you want to spend the rest of your life with that person? Or unless you yourself treat a lot of things more important than your other half as well.. then I have nothing to say.. but if that is the case then why are you even in a relationship? To me... it's like once there is a feeling of not being able to feel yourself important at all then there is where the ground begins to shake.. it's like pre earthquake... bound to shake your entire world apart... cos if you're not the wee bit important then anytime you can be easily replaced... and what happens after that??

I know when we're in love.. we become naive.. we become innocent.. nothing really matters after that.. you seem like you're able to accept every single shit there are.. cos love is in the air.. but if you're not important at all.. is that even love?? I thought love was when you meet someone you can't live without.. love means you wish to have that person with you for the rest of your life.. is that even possible if you're not a single bit important?? tell me that I'm wrong.. I know that there is a phrase that say 'Oi Ching Yum Sui Pao mer'... ya.. that is definately bullshit.. but then I am not saying that with love alone then you can ignore everything else like money or career or etc.. but all I'm saying is that you're placed at a higher priority.. that's all..

I know I am not someone who practices this fully myself.. but then I know my other half is someone who will be important in my life no matter what my actions ar.. whether I know how to show it or not.. maybe true love doesn't really exist or rather it only exist in fairytales.. or rather.. I dun know what exactly is the point that I want to say here.. it's just that.. have any of you ever sat down and think.. will this be the person you wouldn't mind to spend the rest of your life with.. that he/she is important enough for you to oversee all other things... if that's the case.. then by all means.. show them they are important to you in your life.. before regretting it later when you don't even have the chance to show it anymore..

To be continued..

Just simply too adorable...

Ry sent this to me.. I just cannot resist not sharing this.. so so so so adorable.. so so so cute.. dunno how to say it.. but just makes me geram.. you just have to see it for yourself... trust me.. you will love it..

or at least I did.. can't stop smiling to myself.. simply adorable..

Jo's Song Choice of the Month..

This song is really catchy.. just makes you feel like shaking that ass.. and moving your head and shoulder all around.. So, come on everyone.. let's dance to the tune.. (You're way too beautiful girl.... That's why it'll never work.... You'll have me suicidal, suicidal...) and definately nothing close to ella ella ehh ehh... *blek*... and to the 2 jasons.. please stop singing it already..



Lyrics : Sean Kingston - Beautiful Girls

The Apartment @ The Curve

Finally manage to go checkout the new place at The Curve called The Apartment.. it's actually next to T.G.I.F and also few shops after Laundry if you're coming from Cineleisure side.. call me impatient.. but manage to get someone to go with me.. ngek ngek ngek.. went there last nite with Ruben.. both of us already had out dinner before we went there so, just check out their dessert.. yummy.. not many people but then have to wait damn long probably cos it's their first day and they are still getting used to the routines... but first day experience not bad ler.. despite having to wait for a very long time.. sat outside though.. so, gotta go another time.. wanna try the inside next time.. cos they got nice sofas and all.. hehehe.. anyone interested???

Anyway.. I ordered Latte and Strawberry something.. can't remember the name.. but it's the 1st item in the Dessert section.. the strawberries were fresh and the cream and the bread crumbs were very light and nice.. goes well with the strawberries.. dun feel fat at all.. hahaha.. though in actual fact it does.. hehe.. As for Ruben.. he ordered Chocolate Mousse and some kinda umm.. tea i think.. the chocolate mousse was really good as well.. real chocolate-ty.. yummy.. I think I wiped out most of it.. hehehe.. paiseh... some photos of that place for you to have a look at..

Women in love are more stupid than Men in love..

So.. how true is this??? An interesting topic that was on Mix.FM's 'He Says, She Says' topic this morning.. I find it sad but true as well...

One Female Caller:
She agrees cos she used to pay for her husband's course fees whereas the husband spends his own money on many other things for his own leisure.. I think not only course fees probably alot others.. now... they have separated.. but I guess for the better..

One Male Caller:
He agrees as well... was saying that some gals.. eg.. he says that he likes that watch.. looks nice.. ok.. shall wait for the sales and the next thing you know it.. the gal gave him the watch as a present.. then he say that for a guy.. if lets say they try to go after a gal for a while but yet the gal is not interested then NEXT!!! but then for the gals.. they will still stick around till the guy do something really bad to hurt them then only they decide to move on...

Another Female Caller:
She has friends who give out all they can give to a guy.. and yet stick to the guy even when they know that they are also dating other gals.. just sucks isn't it??

So.. do you agree or do you not???.. I mean I know there are guys out there who are also stupid when they are in love but then I think in this case.. I guess women rules.. So sad but yet so true.. So, gals... why can't we learn to wisen up... dang...

Homer's Remote Control...

Now I know what happened to Homer's Stolen Remote Control... which was discovered by Guaisaujai... cos this was what happened.. I found who was the culprit.. it was captured on camera..

Shhhh....

Eat eat...

This afternoon went lunch (another of our illegal gatherings).. hehe.. with my colleagues.. we went The Curve.. tried this new place called Pho Boa (Vietnamese).. hmmm.. dun really know how to order.. but then tried their beginner's meal.. I ordered Steak with meat balls...

well.. it's actually not too bad ler.. cos the beef really pretty tender.. but then again.. still can't beat the usual Yankee Doodle beef noodle.. but seriously can't compare la.. cos it's different style of food.. oh ya.. their chilli to go with the noodle is pretty shiok...

I think all of us almost eat for the entire day already.. there goes my diet plan.. dang.. if there was any ler.. hehe.. Alvin C bought us to a donut place.. Big Apple Donuts!... Freshly baked donuts.. they even have cute durian donuts.. we brought the donuts to Baskin Robbins to eat there.. So, why there??? Obviously we had ice-cream lu.. hehehe.. and for me.. the usual Mint Chocolate Chip.. Yum Yum.. double yum... was supposed to take photos of the donuts.. I know I know.. but we were all too anxious to eat.. so.. lupa lu.. probably next time..

not too long back.. can't remember was the week before last or what.. went to Seri Kembangan or was that Serdang for lunch.. went for 'lat thong' (spicy soup) and also 'fha thiu kai' (some liquored chicken ler.. )... sounds vulgar ya.. hehe.. but it's really pretty good.. the spicy soup is not as spicy as I have expected though.. but then ok ler.. shiok enuf.. probably pretty spicy for some ler.. come to think of it.. might suggest to go for it tomolo or tuesday.. hehe.. yummy..

Lat Thong

Fha Thiu Kai

Another thing to add.. saw this new place in The Curve this afternoon.. opening tomolo (23-07-2007) or rather today la.. hehe.. looks like a really nice place to chill.. looks damn cozy.. feel like goin tonite.. and might just do so..

If I really do go there.. will definately give an update..